DO NOT believe things that are not true that players say. Astian kicked me, default kicked me, default(2) tempbanned me etc. There is a reason that we did that.... A player killed me for no reason by tprequesting me to teleport to him. Got punished!
So beware and do not trust tprequests to you when you are on wilderness or if they tparequest to tpa to them, either ignore it or /tpdeny it!